By Terry Hughes
There have been many celebrations of couples like us both before and after this one but I wish to announce that Carolyn and I are celebrating our sixtieth wedding anniversary today, August 31, 2023.
Pictured here is my beautiful bride (left) taken on the patio by Nick Bogner of Bogner Photography at the Beacon. How lucky I found my girl, lover, the mother of our two sons, partner and best friend. Our union was not by chance but was destined to happen due to a series of events long before we met.
Our fathers attended Empire School and after graduating went on to attend Welland High during the early 1930’s. When I joined Optimist Boys Town Cub Scouts in 1950, Carolyn’s father was the head scoutmaster. The women’s auxiliary that supported the group was attended by our mothers. In the late 1950’s while working at Cross Street Pool I met Paul, Carolyn’s older brother. While teaching swimming to kids in the wading pool, I was called to the fence by a woman who asked if I could give her son a little more attention. The lady was Carolyn’s mother and the boy, her younger brother, Wayne. Although we still did not know each other we both transferred to Notre Dame in 1958.
In 1959, a friend and I decided to attend the dance following the Tribune Basketball Tournament to check things out. Across the dance floor, I happened to notice a girl with a great smile so I asked a friend of hers if she would dance with me. She said yes and two weeks later we went out on our first date. By our third date we were going steady and four years later after a brief separation we announced our engagement to be married.
The second picture (centre) shows us at my parents’ fiftieth wedding anniversary as we were about to celebrate our twenty-fifth. The most recent photo (right) was taken this summer at the cottage in Haliburton while enjoying all our family’s company for two weeks.
Now, here is the secret to our wonderful marriage and relationship for the past sixty years:
‘Cause you’re my lady and I am your man,
When faced with life’s problems,
We did the best that one can.
While solving these problems,
With any success,
Each time we searched for a solution,
It was based on the power of our love.
(Terry Hughes is a Wellander who is passionate about heritage, history and model railroading. His opinion column, Heritage Lives, appears on the blog once or twice monthly.)